Why do hearts beat for a heart that beats for another heart?

Iam waiting for her,I don't know if she'll be mine or not

I posted this years ago on my WhatsApp status and my at that time bf loved it. And he died weeks later. Rest in peace love❤

May Jesus bless you all and lead you to Him!

I remember listening to this 4 years ago when I met this guy that I had a crush on and I was sure I will never get in a relationship with him. I was crying so much back then. Now after 4 years I‘m listening to this after 3 years of relationship with him and a damn broken heart. I should have listened to the „don‘t even try“ part.

there is a man i am in love with who i have been crying over for about a year now… all the little things he does to make sure I am okay is more than just a “friend” thing, but I don’t want to ruin our great friendship!

The reality is that we aren’t in love we are just trying to figure out the importance of love to fit the description of love. We want to love but lose our own self worth in the process because our ideas aren’t the same because we our two people from to different spectrum’s of the world we live in. Women are in tuned to their emotions and men fight to balance logic and reason within their own experiences. The two see two different perspectives of the same objectives in the fight to establish and maintain love. But love is a façade! Love is really living , grasping experiences, within the balance of one essence.

Ashley…

i think im gonna go to bed for ever now

When they don't even love you anymore but keep you waiting for years and years..
i wish i never loved. cuz the pain only goes to the ones who loves/loved. those who doesn't, have so many excuses and they're too busy cause you're not in their priority list. They don't care about your feelings, simply because they don't have any.
It's true.. we can't make people like them love us. I just wish they try to understand that making someone wait in a so called 'relationship', without loving them for so long is some sort of emotional abuse.

it hits different when u realized he only need you when he's alone. and after one month u see he's in a relationship.

it's not actually the lyrics that makes us sad, it's the person that comes to mind when we hear it

Bought here by heartbreak. Fun, isn’t it? Especially on Christmas when the jerk makes you cry and ruins your makeup.

❤❤❤

I am in love with a guy for a long long time he ignored me and when replied he only used to end cold replies i thought hes busy cuz he aint in relationship either,sometimes he used to flirt .. and these days he was so good with me and i .. mann.. i foundout hes taken from the past 8 months .. i worked so hard to get his attention and all he dis was lie im shaking rn and i wanna scream so bad i wanna cry badly man its different kind of pain when ur heart cries but ur eyes dont i just wanna scream man.

Jesus… I’m glad I found this song AFTER getting over my long 8-9 year abusive relationship. I feel nothing but strength when I listen to this now.

I met a girl at my first job; we were teammates, just the three of us along with our boss. Since meeting her, she caught my attention, but I pushed those feelings aside because I didn't want to pursue a co-worker. We quickly became friends, sharing meals, listening to Spotify, playing horror games after work, and attending work events together (though not as a date). At the end of the parties, I would escort her to her condo. I denied my feelings until they reached a breaking point, and I finally asked her to hang out with me. It became one of the best days of my life. We had lunch, watched movies, and shared coffee. Her smile, the way she looked at me, even the goodbye hug after a perfect night—it all just felt right.

Two days after our hangout, she started talking about her ex and her struggle to move on (unaware of my feelings for her). She kept talking for days until I became confused and heartbroken. It felt insensitive, especially since I had implicitly shown my interest in her multiple times. When I confessed my feelings, she rejected me.

Despite the initial rejection, I didn't give up. Months later, I confessed again, but this time, she officially rejected me. It broke my heart, especially because we worked together. I had to interact with her daily, masking my emotions, being professional, and pretending as though nothing had happened. One day, we discussed our situation again, and she admitted it was also affecting her. So, I lied and claimed I'd moved on to ease her worries. But in reality, my feelings for her only grew worse. Ironically, our friendship strengthened through work—late-night talks, discussions about life, complaints about our boss. I even gave her a promotion gift. She once drunkenly confessed missing me during a company outing I didn't attend, which made me angry. She clarified it was said as a friend and blamed it on being drunk, fearful to express it sober due to our history. I felt foolish.

I tried to navigate the situation, taking a vacation to think, even seeking therapy, but nothing helped. Finally, I decided to resign and find another job to have the freedom to move on.

My last day is next week. When I announced my resignation, she cried and was somewhat upset. It was evident she genuinely cared for me as a friend. I asked her one last time if there was a chance, and she affirmed she never had feelings for me, only seeing me as a friend. She emphasized our differences. I accepted it, knowing her to some extent, and I loved her for it, but she despised that. It's been over a year as colleagues, and she never felt anything more. I feel insecure, bitter, and frustrated. She met her ex on a dating app, a relationship lasting only three months, yet she struggles to move on. Meanwhile, I've been there for her for over a year, and she felt nothing.

I want to be her favorite boy, I wanna be the one that makes her day, the one that she thinks about when she lie awake. But I've come to realize that despite my genuine feelings, the gifts, the lengthy messages, and our time together as colleagues, I will never beat the type of guy she wants.

After I resign, I am planning to completely cut her off in my life. Cease contacts, social media, everything. I will do this not because I hate her but this is my way of healing. I never want to do this in the first place. It's so hard to let go and it's so painful. But I know this is the best for me.

Unrequited love is painful, like a disease infecting your body, heart, and soul. Every time I tell this story, I feel foolish. It questions my worth; even though others say I'm attractive and deserving of love, if this one person doesn't reciprocate, it feels like my world is crumbling.

Like Rex Orange County said,

"I could've made you mine

But no, it wasn't meant to be and see, I wasn't made for you

And you weren't made for me

Though it seemed so easy"

I wish you the best. Thank you for being there for me whenever I am down. Thank you for the memories. Goodbye, my favorite girl, my favorite pain.